❤️ 10 Dating Principles for This Generation (With Sense & God)

1. Don’t Date Out of Boredom or Loneliness

Your emotions are not a compass for choosing a partner. Bored hearts attract broken people. Heal before you seek love.

2. If They Don’t Respect God, They Won’t Respect You

If they mock spiritual things, prayer, or purity — run. No chemistry can cover spiritual blindness.

3. Clarity Over Vibes

Ask real questions early: Where is this going? What are your values? If they dodge, they’re not serious.

4. Purity is Possible — Even Now

Yes, you can love someone deeply without sleeping with them. If they say “If you love me, prove it” — that’s manipulation.

5. Don’t Date Potential Alone

“Potential” is not a relationship plan. If they’re not doing the work to grow now, don’t expect miracles in marriage.

6. Pay Attention to How They Treat Others

Watch how they treat waiters, their parents, their exes, and their siblings. It reveals their true character.

7. Be Whole, Not Just Romantic

A relationship won’t fix your low self-worth, trauma, or insecurity. Work on yourself. Whole people love better.

8. Know When to Walk Away

When there’s emotional abuse, lies, cheating, or constant confusion — leave. Peace is a sign of love, not pain.

9. Don’t Force What’s Not Mutual

If you’re doing all the texting, calling, sacrificing — stop. One-sided effort is not love. It’s struggle.

10. Pray About It — And Be Willing to Obey

If God says no, don’t turn it into a yes. A good person is not the same as a God-sent person.