1. You’re always the one reaching out.
If you're always texting first, planning the meetups, and checking in—but they rarely do the same—it’s not love, it's convenience.
2. You feel anxious, not excited.
The butterflies are gone. Instead, you overthink every word, every silence. Love shouldn’t feel like walking on eggshells.
3. They criticize more than they compliment.
When your partner makes you feel small, mocks your goals, or compares you to others—it’s emotional damage in disguise.
4. You're growing, they’re stagnant.
If you're healing, evolving, learning—and they’re still stuck in old toxic patterns—they’ll pull you down instead of rising with you.
5. You cry more than you smile.
This one is simple: If your relationship is a source of pain more than peace, it’s time to rethink everything.
💬 You deserve a love that adds peace, not pressure.
Don’t settle. Don’t shrink. Don’t stay where you’re only sometimes loved.
—
Would you stay in a relationship that feels like this?
Let’s talk 👇💭 #KonnectAfrica #RelationshipThread #LoveWisely
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24 days ago1. You’re always the one reaching out.
If you're always texting first, planning the meetups, and checking in—but they rarely do the same—it’s not love, it's convenience.
2. You feel anxious, not excited.
The butterflies are gone. Instead, you overthink every word, every silence. Love shouldn’t feel like walking on eggshells.
3. They criticize more than they compliment.
When your partner makes you feel small, mocks your goals, or compares you to others—it’s emotional damage in disguise.
4. You're growing, they’re stagnant.
If you're healing, evolving, learning—and they’re still stuck in old toxic patterns—they’ll pull you down instead of rising with you.
5. You cry more than you smile.
This one is simple: If your relationship is a source of pain more than peace, it’s time to rethink everything.
💬 You deserve a love that adds peace, not pressure.
Don’t settle. Don’t shrink. Don’t stay where you’re only sometimes loved.
—
Would you stay in a relationship that feels like this?
Let’s talk 👇💭 #KonnectAfrica #RelationshipThread #LoveWisely