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Are Nigerian Friendships Becoming Too Transactional?
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Have you noticed how many friendships today feel like silent business deals?
Support is conditional.
Loyalty is calculated.
Everything feels like: “What can you do for me?”
Let’s talk.
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In many Nigerian circles, friendships now depend on:
Once these go, the bond fades.
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You miss someone? They reply with “You no get job?”
You vent? They say, “You dey talk too much.”
People are tired, busy… but also emotionally unavailable.
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We live in survival mode.
So people treat relationships like investments.
If it won’t “pay off,” they don’t want it.
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But this mindset is dangerous.
It breeds fake friendships, silent competition, and emotional burnout.
We lose the joy of just being there for each other — no strings attached.
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Real friendship should feel safe.
It should be a place where you can:
And still be loved.
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We need to shift.
From “What can I gain?”
To “Who am I becoming with this person?”
Friendship isn’t business. It’s connection.
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To everyone with one or two real friends — cherish them.
In a world that’s becoming colder and more calculated, true friendship is rare gold.
— #MindOfLucky