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Chasing Dreams in a country that doesn't support dreams

Literature 13 hrs ago
  • Freda Bunny
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    Life is funny.

     

    I remember being a child and hearing the classic question:

     

    “What do you want to be when you grow up?”

     

    We’d all shout,

    “A doctor!” “A lawyer!” “An engineer!”

    And our parents would smile — proud, hopeful, relieved.

    “Yes,” they’d say.

    “You’ll be successful.”

     

    But deep inside, I had different dreams.

     

    I could draw.

    I could sing.

    I could dance.

    I could write.

     

    I had talents that made me feel alive.

    Creative fire burning in a system that only clapped for certificates.

     

    But no one noticed. No one cared.

    In Nigeria, those things are “hobbies.”

    Not real jobs.

    Not real futures.

     

    So I did what they wanted.

    I chased the degrees.

    I walked the path.

    I agreed to live a safe, average, predictable life.

     

    And yet…

    Sometimes, I wonder.

     

    What if I had chased my dreams?

    What if I had believed in them enough to fight for them?

    Would I be somewhere else now?

    Would I be more than what they allowed me to be?

     

    And the saddest part?

    We may never know.

     

    "Have you ever felt this way? Let’s talk in the comments."

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