Even if they don't do things conventionally?

Here are some examples:

1. They frequently take calculated, high upside risks.

Most people take one sniff at risk, do an about-turn, back to the 'safety' of watching Twilight reruns in their underpants.

Those who are the envy of the town realised long ago that calculated, rather than reckless, risk-taking was the secret strategy to take them places.

Whether it's an investment in a startup with massive potential upside, or a bet on themselves by starting their own, these people play the game (and that game is rarely rewarded overnight).

2. Adapt faster to changing times.

The way things worked fifteen years ago is often obsolete today. Heck, that's the case even after a few years these days.

Most people are too slow to notice such changes. They fail to adapt, while the fast-movers take all the spoils.

For example, going to college may have seemed wise in the late 90s. Today, for most, it's time wasted.

The smart skip University to get a head start on something they can see results with sooner.

3. Stopped moulding themselves to society's expectations.

Those who fast-track their happiness aren't waiting for someone in a suit to give them the 'all-clear.'

They decide on what they want, take action, and allow the world to mould itself to their vision.

You need to stop being in awe of everyone else. They're just like you. They have a heartbeat. They take a dump in the morning while reading the news.

Locate your inner confidence and take a step towards what makes sense to YOU, not Nathan down the hall.

4. Prioritise energy over money.

It's insane how many do this backwards. They hustle for money and then burn it all on quick-fix pleasures. Then they start the process all over again.

They either focus on material accumulations to keep up with the Joneses at the expense of their happiness, or they burn out trying to get more money.

Those who others secretly envy focus more on maintaining their energy. Their health, everyday joy, and peace are their priorities.

Note, this does not mean you shouldn't focus on getting money. Just restructure things so that your energy is optimised.

When I thought this way, I realised my huge money goals weren't warranted. I was perfectly okay aiming for a lifestyle that got me out of the house more often.

5. Focus on becoming remarkable at less.

It's easier than ever to start something exciting before being persuaded to drop that and move on to the next cool thing.

Choice is abundant, but that doesn't mean we should pursue every lead.

Choose something that has long-term legs.

Like I did with writing. Find a way to get really good at it, and to incorporate some side skills to make it even more valuable, like I did with drawing and a cheeky bit of occasional humour.

Focus on building remarkable things that add genuine value to people's lives.

If you can create this, you'll never need to worry about money or purpose again.