As you are protecting your girl-child, don't forget that the boy-child is also at risk of molestation. Peadiophiles are not only in men, we also have them in females. When your girl-child/boy-child becomes so much attached to a particular friend or family member apart from the parents, try to ask him/her the reasons for the love in a very polite and lovable manner...the revelation might shock you. Remember it is not in all but most. The days are evil, be guided!