My wife earns more. We agreed I would handle the home and kids while she builds her career. I cook. I clean. I parent. I am happy. But my in-laws visit and ask my wife, "Why are you suffering your husband?" They pray over me. They offer to "help me find a job." Why is a man at home a failure, but a woman at home is virtuous? Is the stay-at-home dad a pioneer or a pariah? Men, would you do it? Women, would you respect a husband who did?