So I have been in a relationship with this guy for five years
He has been good to me and also help in the little way that he can. I really appreciate his efforts cus he is a young guy struggling to better his future
So ff, I got admission into one of the universities in the country
On second semester break in level 100, I got a number from certain girl that my guy is trying to woe her claiming he broke up with me and he is single. I don't want to go into details but upon further investigations, I found out they dated for a whole 1yr whilst I was with him and even got pregnant in the process and aborted it.
Now this is where my dilemma comes in. I have a guy that I dated from my primary years till I completed jhs. We never broke up it was the distance that made us fall apart.
Like a month ago, that ex of mine took my number from a friend and we reconnected.
Now that ex wants us to reconcile and give our relationship a try so I decided to break up with my current guy.
Mind you I don't have any feelings for my current guy again because of what happened. I decided to break up with him then buy he came apologising with the brother so I forgave him but the feeling wasn't there anymore. I was just with him because I felt pity for leaving him after so many years.
But today, my current that I want a break up from, called me and was crying for me to give him another chance but the truth is the love isn't there again.
Please now my question is should be with my current because I'm feeling pity for him or I should move on with my life. Maybe be with my ex or find someone else.
Please I'm sorry for the long essay and please be gentle with your comments
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3 hrs agoHello please keep me anonymous
I'm in a dilemma right now
So I have been in a relationship with this guy for five years
He has been good to me and also help in the little way that he can. I really appreciate his efforts cus he is a young guy struggling to better his future
So ff, I got admission into one of the universities in the country
On second semester break in level 100, I got a number from certain girl that my guy is trying to woe her claiming he broke up with me and he is single. I don't want to go into details but upon further investigations, I found out they dated for a whole 1yr whilst I was with him and even got pregnant in the process and aborted it.
Now this is where my dilemma comes in. I have a guy that I dated from my primary years till I completed jhs. We never broke up it was the distance that made us fall apart.
Like a month ago, that ex of mine took my number from a friend and we reconnected.
Now that ex wants us to reconcile and give our relationship a try so I decided to break up with my current guy.
Mind you I don't have any feelings for my current guy again because of what happened. I decided to break up with him then buy he came apologising with the brother so I forgave him but the feeling wasn't there anymore. I was just with him because I felt pity for leaving him after so many years.
But today, my current that I want a break up from, called me and was crying for me to give him another chance but the truth is the love isn't there again.
Please now my question is should be with my current because I'm feeling pity for him or I should move on with my life. Maybe be with my ex or find someone else.
Please I'm sorry for the long essay and please be gentle with your comments
I will be in the comments section. Thank you