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 Before you judge me, just hear my side.
I’ve been dating Michael for 2 years. He’s loving, caring, and very loyal.
But he’s also always busy. Always working. Always “I’ll call you later.”
I started feeling lonely. I begged him to give me time. He’d say, “I’m doing all this for us.”
That’s when I got close to his best friend, Chuka.
Chuka used to check on me when Michael ignored me. He listened. He complimented me.
I didn’t plan to fall for him. But one night, we made a mistake.
I felt guilty. I cried. Chuka told me not to tell Michael — “He won’t forgive you.”
So I kept quiet.
Two months later, Michael took me to a restaurant and asked me to marry him.
I said yes. I wanted to start fresh. I wanted to bury my past.
The next day, Chuka came to my house.
He said: “I told him everything. He knew before the proposal. He just wanted revenge.”
Michael blocked me that night. No calls. No chats. No explanation.
I was humiliated, confused, and broken.
I don’t know who to blame — myself, Chuka, or Michael.
But one thing I know is… I lost a good man. And I’ll never get him back.
Would you forgive if you were Michael? Or was his revenge too harsh?
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106 days agoÂ
 Before you judge me, just hear my side.
I’ve been dating Michael for 2 years. He’s loving, caring, and very loyal.
But he’s also always busy. Always working. Always “I’ll call you later.”
I started feeling lonely. I begged him to give me time. He’d say, “I’m doing all this for us.”
That’s when I got close to his best friend, Chuka.
Chuka used to check on me when Michael ignored me. He listened. He complimented me.
I didn’t plan to fall for him. But one night, we made a mistake.
I felt guilty. I cried. Chuka told me not to tell Michael — “He won’t forgive you.”
So I kept quiet.
Two months later, Michael took me to a restaurant and asked me to marry him.
I said yes. I wanted to start fresh. I wanted to bury my past.
The next day, Chuka came to my house.
He said: “I told him everything. He knew before the proposal. He just wanted revenge.”
Michael blocked me that night. No calls. No chats. No explanation.
I was humiliated, confused, and broken.
I don’t know who to blame — myself, Chuka, or Michael.
But one thing I know is… I lost a good man. And I’ll never get him back.
Would you forgive if you were Michael? Or was his revenge too harsh?