So Iāve been dating this guy for about two years now who happens to be in the same level of education with me (final year university student )and through out our dating,is always me that initiates conversations and begs attention.sometimes he doesnāt even call or text but I see him updating his status now and then .Well Iām a young lady in my early twenties (23)who is a virgin even though I have a boyfriend.At the beginning,I told him I canāt have sex with him cos Iām not ready to break my virginity.He said he doesnāt mind and that he loves me so I completely agree to the relationship.FF he changed towards me and starting cheating and all thatĀ
Ā And I forgave him anytime that happens but he doesnāt give me attention and all that .And is not even that he provides for me ,he hasnāt done anything for me since we started dating that even sometimes I feed him .I didnāt mind cos I really do love him but here is the case where if I donāt call or text he wonāt .Gradually I started losing feelings for him because of his attitude and started talking to other guys and I have finally fallen in love with this new guy who isnāt in the country but at the same time I still love my guy even though both had no idea .
Ā Right now my new guy seems very serious with me and wants to marry me cos he is financially okay but with my boyfriend,he is still schooling and I donāt know how long it will take him to be financially stable to be able to marry me .I really want to break up with my first guy cos I feel it wonāt get anywhere and focus on the new guy but I canāt do it .Mind you ,I tried talking to my guy about his attitude and behavior but he never listens and still does the same .And I canāt date two Guys at the same time ,what should I do ?Ā Ā
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So Iāve been dating this guy for about two years now who happens to be in the same level of education with me (final year university student )and through out our dating,is always me that initiates conversations and begs attention.sometimes he doesnāt even call or text but I see him updating his status now and then .Well Iām a young lady in my early twenties (23)who is a virgin even though I have a boyfriend.At the beginning,I told him I canāt have sex with him cos Iām not ready to break my virginity.He said he doesnāt mind and that he loves me so I completely agree to the relationship.FF he changed towards me and starting cheating and all thatĀ
Ā And I forgave him anytime that happens but he doesnāt give me attention and all that .And is not even that he provides for me ,he hasnāt done anything for me since we started dating that even sometimes I feed him .I didnāt mind cos I really do love him but here is the case where if I donāt call or text he wonāt .Gradually I started losing feelings for him because of his attitude and started talking to other guys and I have finally fallen in love with this new guy who isnāt in the country but at the same time I still love my guy even though both had no idea .
Ā Right now my new guy seems very serious with me and wants to marry me cos he is financially okay but with my boyfriend,he is still schooling and I donāt know how long it will take him to be financially stable to be able to marry me .I really want to break up with my first guy cos I feel it wonāt get anywhere and focus on the new guy but I canāt do it .Mind you ,I tried talking to my guy about his attitude and behavior but he never listens and still does the same .And I canāt date two Guys at the same time ,what should I do ?Ā Ā
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