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⚠️ THE SCARIEST PART ABOUT DATING ISN’T WHAT THEY SAY… IT’S HOW THEY REACT WHEN YOU SAY “NO” ⚠️
That tiny moment tells you EVERYTHING you need to know about who they really are. 💯
Say you’re on your very first date.
You say NO to something simple…
👉 They suggest a restaurant and you go, “No, I don’t like that place.”
👉 They reach to refill your wine glass and you go, “No thanks, I’m done.”
👉 They lean in to touch you and you go, “No.”
If their response is anything other than a simple “OKAY”... 🚩 RED ALERT.
Because here’s the truth: If they push back—
💢 “But I like this restaurant, we should go there.”
💢 They refill your glass anyway.
💢 They brush off your “no” with a smile.
⚠️ That’s not “cute persistence.”
That’s a person who DOESN’T RESPECT BOUNDARIES.
And trust me, that will become the dominant theme of your relationship: your “NO” means NOTHING.
Worst part? If you walk away, somehow you’ll be the villain.
They’ll twist it. They’ll blame you.
Some will even accuse you of being the abusive one.
👉 The lesson? PAY ATTENTION TO THE SMALL NO’s.
Because the way they handle those tells you EVERYTHING.
🚩 Small Red Flags = Big Problems Later. Don’t ignore them.
#DatingTruths #RedFlags #BoundariesMatter
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44 days ago.
⚠️ THE SCARIEST PART ABOUT DATING ISN’T WHAT THEY SAY… IT’S HOW THEY REACT WHEN YOU SAY “NO” ⚠️
That tiny moment tells you EVERYTHING you need to know about who they really are. 💯
Say you’re on your very first date.
You say NO to something simple…
👉 They suggest a restaurant and you go, “No, I don’t like that place.”
👉 They reach to refill your wine glass and you go, “No thanks, I’m done.”
👉 They lean in to touch you and you go, “No.”
If their response is anything other than a simple “OKAY”... 🚩 RED ALERT.
Because here’s the truth: If they push back—
💢 “But I like this restaurant, we should go there.”
💢 They refill your glass anyway.
💢 They brush off your “no” with a smile.
⚠️ That’s not “cute persistence.”
That’s a person who DOESN’T RESPECT BOUNDARIES.
And trust me, that will become the dominant theme of your relationship: your “NO” means NOTHING.
Worst part? If you walk away, somehow you’ll be the villain.
They’ll twist it. They’ll blame you.
Some will even accuse you of being the abusive one.
👉 The lesson? PAY ATTENTION TO THE SMALL NO’s.
Because the way they handle those tells you EVERYTHING.
🚩 Small Red Flags = Big Problems Later. Don’t ignore them.
#DatingTruths #RedFlags #BoundariesMatter