If person no wan be my friend, make them keep their smile o, no time for confusion o
If person no wan be my friend, make them keep their smile o, no time for confusion o
 
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Omoba_Excels
15 days agoSome of you confuse “I smiled at you” with “We’re now besties.” 😭
Let’s draw the line between being friendly and being friends — before we end up calling acquaintances for help only friends should get. 💀
Tweet 2:
Being friendly is manners.
Being friends is mutual investment.
One is about vibes, the other is about values.
Tweet 3:
Psychology says humans are wired for connection — but discernment helps you know who deserves what level of access.
Even Jesus had the crowd, the 12, the 3, and John. Levels, my dear. ✋🏽
Tweet 4:
Friendly people say “hi.”
Friends say “I noticed you’ve been off lately — talk to me.”
Big difference.
Tweet 5:
Some of y’all are emotionally over-drafting from people who only owed you a smile. 😩
They were just being polite, not promising loyalty.
Be kind, yes — but friendship is two-way traffic. Don’t carry the whole friendship on your head like gala tray. 😭
Tweet 6:
Being friendly opens doors.
Being friends builds rooms inside those doors.
But not everyone you meet deserves a key. 🔑
Someone can like your energy and still not be your person.
So, stay friendly. Be warm. Smile.
But reserve “friend” for those who:
show up,
pray for you,
tell you truth even when it stings,
and clap for you even when they’re tired. 🙌🏽
Being friendly is free. Being friends is an investment. 💡
Choose wisely.
If this thread made you rethink your circle 👀 —
Quote this with “Boundaries & Balance 💯” if you’re learning to draw the line too.