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20 hrs agoI was to get married in 2022, but at some point, the sound of the music changed, so much pressure and unnecessary demands and drama coming from the supposed in-laws.
Her mother was already billing me, asking me to place her on a monthly allowance, and her sisters were calling me to send them money to celebrate their birthdays.
Even with the long marriage list that I was already working on, you had the guts to tell me to place you on a monthly allowance. Most poor families are never reasonable.
Note: We were not yet married. We were in courtship planning a wedding. Two weeks to the wedding, she told me she wants the wedding to be postponed till 3 months for no just reason.
I am so sure she never meant it. She wanted to test the waters. She wanted to shake me so I would start begging and begin to dance to the tune of her and her mother. But guess what, I shocked them.
I cancelled the wedding entirely to their amazement and broke up with her, not minding all that I had spent in preparation for the wedding.
Her pastor called to plead, but I refused.
Her mother called to plead, but I refused.
My own pastor called to plead, but I refused.
Her sister's husband, who also happens to be a pastor, called to plead, but I also refused.
She too pleaded but I refused.
My mind was already made up at that point, and there was nothing anyone could do or say that would make me have a change of heart.
I shunned everybody totally, I never even gave them a chance to explain anything.
I won't lie, I was hurt because of the money and time I wasted starting from the day of introduction to paying for coverage, decoration, DJ, bridal wears and accessories, wedding ring, Aso-ebi, etc.
Funny enough, none of these were refunded...all lost, but I never cared. All I wanted was my peace of mind and sanity