no but in any situation you find yourself always give 50 50 love or attention because something happened
no but in any situation you find yourself always give 50 50 love or attention because something happened
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7 hrs agoDating a Man Who Answers to No One Sounds Sexy Until…
1." I’m dating a self-made man who answers to no one."
Sounds hot, right? Independent. Powerful. Alpha vibes.
But let’s take a quick walk through why that might be the beginning of your villain origin story. 😅👇
2. At first, it’s impressive.
He’s bold. Doesn’t ask for permission. Doesn’t wait for approval.
Moves like a boss.
And you? You feel chosen. Special. Desired.
Until… he gets mad.
3. Now you’re seeing the other side:
No mentor.
No father figure.
No best friend.
No spiritual guide.
Nobody to say, “Bro, you’re wrong.”
When he flips out, there’s no brakes and you’re the one stuck in the passenger seat.
4. See, everyone needs someone they respect enough to listen to even when they're being a menace.
The absence of that is Red flag. 🚩
5. Respect and accountability go hand in hand.
But if he respects no one, who’s holding him accountable?
(It won’t be you, sis.)
6. And don’t let “self-made” fool you.Self-made doesn’t mean emotionally mature.
It just means he fought to get here but how he did it, and who he became in the process…that matters.
7. Love a strong man, but love a grounded one more.
The kind of man who answers to values, mentors, or faith not just his moods.
8. So, before you swoon over “I answer to no one,”
Ask yourself:
“What happens the day he stops answering to me too?”
9.Final note:
A man who fears no one is not fearless.
He’s just dangerous to everyone, including you.
Be wise. Be safe. Love smart.
Drop your thoughts. Ever dated someone like this?
Or did I just describe your ex in 7 points? 👀😂
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