RELATIONSHIPS — Love Sweet, But E No Be Beans. If You No Get Sense, You Go Chop Breakfast Fast 😂💔
1. Everybody wan love.
Everybody wan soft person wey go understand them.
But the truth?
Love no dey survive only on “good morning” and cute pictures.
If e go last, e need work, sense, and intentionality.
Let’s talk 👇🏽
2. This generation too sabi "vibe"
But we no sabi "build."
One small disagreement?
Boom — "I don’t do toxic." 🚩
You wan relationship wey go last,
but you dey run like Bolt when things hard small.
3. True love no go feel perfect.
Sometimes:
💔 You go doubt
😩 You go tire
🗣️ You go argue
😶 You go quiet
😡 You go vex
But if the love pure & una dey try fix things — that’s real love.
4. 🚨 Red flags dey o! Don’t ignore:
❌ No respect
❌ Gaslighting
❌ Always making you feel like you’re wrong
❌ Ghosting & coming back like say na normal
❌ Zero accountability
Love no mean you go suffer.
5. Important reminder:
Being in love no mean you go stop loving yourself.
Don’t lose your peace to prove loyalty.
Don’t shrink your dreams just to fit into their plan.
Relationship no be bondage.
6. 💡 You dey ready for relationship?
✅ You fit communicate without shouting?
✅ You fit apologize without pride?
✅ You dey loyal even when nobody dey watch?
✅ You get vision for your life?
Love without maturity na heartbreak waiting to happen.
7. Date someone wey:
✨ Prays for you
✨ Supports your hustle
✨ No dey use love play
✨ Dey communicate clearly
✨ Dey proud of you in public
✨ Still correct you in private
Na those kind people dey hard to find — but they exist.
8. Don’t rush love because pressure full your timeline.
Dem post “my baby surprised me”
You begin think say you no serious with your life. 😭
Omo, some people dey suffer indoors. No envy cruise.
9. And if love no work out?
No stress yourself.
No go swear for person.
No lose hope.
No carry trauma go next relationship.
Learn, heal, grow, and move.
Love go still find you again — when you're ready.
10. Final word?
In this love matter, remember:
❤️ Love is sweet, but no be enough.
🧠 Wisdom + communication go carry am far.
🧘🏽♀️ Peace
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89 days agoRELATIONSHIPS — Love Sweet, But E No Be Beans. If You No Get Sense, You Go Chop Breakfast Fast 😂💔
1. Everybody wan love.
Everybody wan soft person wey go understand them.
But the truth?
Love no dey survive only on “good morning” and cute pictures.
If e go last, e need work, sense, and intentionality.
Let’s talk 👇🏽
2. This generation too sabi "vibe"
But we no sabi "build."
One small disagreement?
Boom — "I don’t do toxic." 🚩
You wan relationship wey go last,
but you dey run like Bolt when things hard small.
3. True love no go feel perfect.
Sometimes:
💔 You go doubt
😩 You go tire
🗣️ You go argue
😶 You go quiet
😡 You go vex
But if the love pure & una dey try fix things — that’s real love.
4. 🚨 Red flags dey o! Don’t ignore:
❌ No respect
❌ Gaslighting
❌ Always making you feel like you’re wrong
❌ Ghosting & coming back like say na normal
❌ Zero accountability
Love no mean you go suffer.
5. Important reminder:
Being in love no mean you go stop loving yourself.
Don’t lose your peace to prove loyalty.
Don’t shrink your dreams just to fit into their plan.
Relationship no be bondage.
6. 💡 You dey ready for relationship?
✅ You fit communicate without shouting?
✅ You fit apologize without pride?
✅ You dey loyal even when nobody dey watch?
✅ You get vision for your life?
Love without maturity na heartbreak waiting to happen.
7. Date someone wey:
✨ Prays for you
✨ Supports your hustle
✨ No dey use love play
✨ Dey communicate clearly
✨ Dey proud of you in public
✨ Still correct you in private
Na those kind people dey hard to find — but they exist.
8. Don’t rush love because pressure full your timeline.
Dem post “my baby surprised me”
You begin think say you no serious with your life. 😭
Omo, some people dey suffer indoors. No envy cruise.
9. And if love no work out?
No stress yourself.
No go swear for person.
No lose hope.
No carry trauma go next relationship.
Learn, heal, grow, and move.
Love go still find you again — when you're ready.
10. Final word?
In this love matter, remember:
❤️ Love is sweet, but no be enough.
🧠 Wisdom + communication go carry am far.
🧘🏽♀️ Peace