Of course, being bold is cool but let’s talk real for a sec.
1. You might lose that soft girl energy: There’s just something powerful about being pursued by a man. The moment you switch roles, well, it’s easy to feel like you’re doing too much. Over here we call it DESPERATION!
2. Some guys don’t rate you after that: Harsh, but true. A lot of men respect the women they chase, not the ones chasing them.
3. It Goes Against Natural Flow: We’re not saying stay silent forever, but there’s a rhythm to attraction and being the pursuer can disrupt the chemistry that naturally builds when a man truly wants you.
4. Rejection Hurts More Than You Think: Even if you pretend it’s cool, it's not. Embarrassment is an understatement when you get turned down (or dumped later) after making the first move.
There’s power in letting a man want you first. Gurl, Let him do the work.
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Beckywilly
5 hrs agoOf course, being bold is cool but let’s talk real for a sec.
1. You might lose that soft girl energy: There’s just something powerful about being pursued by a man. The moment you switch roles, well, it’s easy to feel like you’re doing too much. Over here we call it DESPERATION!
2. Some guys don’t rate you after that: Harsh, but true. A lot of men respect the women they chase, not the ones chasing them.
3. It Goes Against Natural Flow: We’re not saying stay silent forever, but there’s a rhythm to attraction and being the pursuer can disrupt the chemistry that naturally builds when a man truly wants you.
4. Rejection Hurts More Than You Think: Even if you pretend it’s cool, it's not. Embarrassment is an understatement when you get turned down (or dumped later) after making the first move.
There’s power in letting a man want you first. Gurl, Let him do the work.
Find more dating tips here ▶️ https://a.co/d/hL5sRNc