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The Side Effects of Sexual Abuse — My Story, and How I’m Healing
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15 days ago
Michaeljr
15 days ago
I’ve never said this publicly. But it’s time.
I was sexually abused when I was younger.
It wasn’t violent. It was quiet, confusing, manipulative.
I didn’t call it abuse for years.
But it left marks that no one could see.
Let me tell you what it did to me — and how I’m healing
I couldn’t trust anyone.
Compliments felt like traps. Kindness felt fake.
I hated my body.
Intimacy confused me. I felt both drawn to it and scared of it.
I became hyper-independent.
Never asked for help. Didn’t want to owe anyone anything.
Shame was my shadow.
Even when I knew it wasn’t my fault… guilt stuck.
Healing is slow.
I started by saying the words. I was abused.
Then I forgave myself. I asked for help. I started talking.
If you’re reading this and it’s your story too —
You are not broken.
It wasn’t your fault.
You are not alone.
I’m healing.
I still have days.
But I’m no longer silent.
And neither should you be. 🕊️
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Michaeljr
15 days agoIt wasn’t violent. It was quiet, confusing, manipulative.
I didn’t call it abuse for years.
Let me tell you what it did to me — and how I’m healing
Compliments felt like traps. Kindness felt fake.
Intimacy confused me. I felt both drawn to it and scared of it.
Never asked for help. Didn’t want to owe anyone anything.
Even when I knew it wasn’t my fault… guilt stuck.
I started by saying the words. I was abused.
Then I forgave myself. I asked for help. I started talking.
You are not broken.
It wasn’t your fault.
You are not alone.
I still have days.
But I’m no longer silent.
And neither should you be. 🕊️