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We met on uni

Creative 4 days ago Participants (0)
  • Hi so I need advice on something. I made a female friend this year, we became so close most people thought we knew each other for long but we met in uni beginning of this year. Thing is, I'm one year older than her and so I saw her like a younger sister. She had some issues though, she kept sleeping with random guys and I told her it wasn't nice because I didn't want my sister's reputation to be spoilt. I told her to work on her boundaries and her reply was "it's not everyone who can keep their boundaries with people like you" and all I told her was not to go to a guy's room past a certain time when you know you don't want to have sex with him. If someone touches you in a way you like say no and move away from the person. She said I was being too religious. Fast forward I was able to convince her to settle for a guy and she started dating. So we were in a friend group of like 10 people but they know everytime you have sex with your guy. I told her to stop and her told her to be careful how you moves with the friend group. Telling her some people don't need to know some things about you. Honestly, I told her some things our friends were doing which was bad. I didn't expect her to believe me, I expected her to put it at the back of her mind and at least observe what's going on. She says I'm always trying to tell her what to do and that even I have had sex before. I broke my virginity this year at 20. She decided to go and tell everyone what I said including the fact that I broke my virginity. They didn't tell me directly but I heard about it by accident. I've stopped talking to her and blocked her because that was betrayal to a certain level. She went to see some elderly people to talk to me and that we should go back to how we were before. I told them I would unblock her but we can't go back to how we were. But I can't bring myself to even talk to her. In the end she was the one kicked out if the friend group because she betrayed another person. My question is, should I forgive her and talk to her or just concentrate on myself and ignore

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