Fast forward four years later…
David reaches out again.
We talk… we catch up… I’m not even holding grudges anymore.
Then he says, “I miss you.”
I was like, Miss me?
This is the same man who let me go because another woman told him to.
I reminded him ,and he apologized, saying,
“I had no choice… I’ve been with her for so long.”
They’re still together. Over six years now.
And he’s telling me… he still wants me?
A man who is obviously going to marry her… but wants to keep me close?
That’s when it clicked.
He’s selfish.
Not because he doesn’t know what he wants — but because he wants everything.
And I had to ask myself — am I not worth someone choosing me completely?
The answer is yes. I am worth it.
And if no man is going to love me right… then I will love myself.
******************************************************
The truth about what some men want?
They don’t always want love.
They want comfort… convenience… control.
They want you close enough to keep… but far enough not to cost them anything.
But a man who really wants you…
He will choose you.
Completely. Publicly. Proudly.
And if his actions show you you’re just an option…
Don’t argue. Don’t compete.
Remove yourself.
Because the best kind of love…
Is the one you give yourself.
"My name is Tari and I'm choosing myself first"
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14 hrs agoFast forward four years later…
David reaches out again.
We talk… we catch up… I’m not even holding grudges anymore.
Then he says, “I miss you.”
I was like, Miss me?
This is the same man who let me go because another woman told him to.
I reminded him ,and he apologized, saying,
“I had no choice… I’ve been with her for so long.”
They’re still together. Over six years now.
And he’s telling me… he still wants me?
A man who is obviously going to marry her… but wants to keep me close?
That’s when it clicked.
He’s selfish.
Not because he doesn’t know what he wants — but because he wants everything.
And I had to ask myself — am I not worth someone choosing me completely?
The answer is yes. I am worth it.
And if no man is going to love me right… then I will love myself.
******************************************************
The truth about what some men want?
They don’t always want love.
They want comfort… convenience… control.
They want you close enough to keep… but far enough not to cost them anything.
But a man who really wants you…
He will choose you.
Completely. Publicly. Proudly.
And if his actions show you you’re just an option…
Don’t argue. Don’t compete.
Remove yourself.
Because the best kind of love…
Is the one you give yourself.
"My name is Tari and I'm choosing myself first"