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Why do husbands lose interest from wives after marriage?
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52 days agoPersonally from my experience being married for 23 years I don’t think they do. We are wired differently than women. Men have different needs than women do. We get comfortable in our marriage and we will be completely satisfied and happy in our marriage. Our wives end up feeling like we’ve lost interest because we stop putting in as much effort because we get too comfortable.
I don’t think most men realize how much their wives needs are different than their own. I didn’t for a very long time and she would try telling me even but I just didn’t get it for a long time. I don’t know if it was the way she was going about it or what the reason was but I felt almost like she was telling me things aren’t working so fix it. We lacked communication in a big way.
Eventually I realized that she was saying that things aren’t working so we need to fix it together. That made all the difference in our relationship. A lot of men are raised in such a way that they are taught from childhood to not show emotion. They are taught that showing how they feel makes them appear weak. That can be detrimental to their future relationships. I don’t think women realize how much their spouse’s love them because they don’t know how to show what they feel. It’s sad that men don’t even realize it’s a problem and it’s so easily fixed.
I have learned that she needs a lot of reassurance if not constant reassurance about how I feel. I try to tell her that she’s beautiful every single day. I’m sure I forgot sometimes but I try to say it every day. I catch myself asking her if I’ve told her that she’s beautiful today. If she says no then I say “I’m sorry, I’ll remedy that” then I tell her how beautiful I think she is. I try to be mindful of her needs because it’s easy to slip back into a routine of forgetting that hers are different.