In today’s Nigeria, many people have become careful about believing promises. Whether from politicians, employers, business partners, or even personal relationships, trust has reduced greatly over the years. One major reason is disappointment. Many Nigerians have heard promises that were never fulfilled. During elections, citizens are promised better roads, electricity, jobs, security, and affordable living. Yet after elections, many people feel abandoned and frustrated when little changes. This habit has also affected daily life beyond politics. Some workers are promised salaries that arrive late or never come. Small businesses are promised support that never reaches them. Friends make promises they cannot keep. Even relationships now struggle because many people fear betrayal or dishonesty. As a result, people now believe actions more than words. In modern Nigerian society, trust is no longer given easily. Many individuals prefer to “wait and see” before believing anybody. This mindset may protect people from disappointment, but it also creates emotional distance and suspicion in society. Social media has added to the problem. Fake news, online scams, and false lifestyles constantly make people question what is real and what is not. Many now struggle to separate truth from appearance. However, trust is still important for every healthy society. Without trust, relationships weaken, businesses fail, and communities become divided. The solution begins with honesty and accountability. People should avoid making promises they cannot keep. Leaders should focus more on results than speeches. Parents should teach integrity from home, and individuals should value truth even when it is difficult. Over time, consistent honesty rebuilds confidence. In the end, trust may take years to build but only seconds to destroy. That is why keeping one genuine promise today can matter more than making a hundred empty promises tomorrow. Do you think Nigerians still trust promises easily today?
