I remember one evening when I sat on my bed, scrolling through my WhatsApp status.
Someone I knew just posted a video — brand new car, fancy dinner, “God is good” typed boldly across the screen.
I smiled. But deep inside? I felt tired.
Not just physically… but tired of feeling like I was behind.
That night, I lay down and thought about everything.
Why do I feel like I’m not doing enough?
Why does it seem like everyone else has figured life out except me?
Then it hit me — I was comparing my own story to someone else’s highlight.
Their moment of joy. Their public win.
But nobody posts the struggles, the confusion, or the days they wanted to quit.
And that’s the truth — life is not a competition.
Some of us start small. Some start strong.
Some people marry early. Others take time.
Some find purpose fast. Others go through 5 different paths before discovering theirs.
But we all have our own time.
Your time isn’t delayed.
It’s just different.
We live in a generation where everyone seems to be achieving something —
A new business, a perfect relationship, moving abroad, trending online…
And sometimes, you wonder, “God, when will it be my turn?”
But let me remind you:
Slow success is still success.
Quiet growth is still growth.
Nobody claps for the seed buried underground — but one day, it blossoms.
So please, if you’re reading this and you’ve been feeling tired, left out, or like you’re not doing enough…
You’re not failing. You’re still becoming.
Don’t let someone else’s journey make you question your own.
Don’t let the noise of the world drown out your small wins.
You’re not late. You’re not slow. You’re human.
Rest when you need to.
Pause if you must.
But don’t give up. You’re not behind.
You’re exactly where you need to be.
And maybe, just maybe —
This season is preparing you for something far greater than you ever imagined.
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2 hrs agoI remember one evening when I sat on my bed, scrolling through my WhatsApp status.
Someone I knew just posted a video — brand new car, fancy dinner, “God is good” typed boldly across the screen.
I smiled. But deep inside? I felt tired.
Not just physically… but tired of feeling like I was behind.
That night, I lay down and thought about everything.
Why do I feel like I’m not doing enough?
Why does it seem like everyone else has figured life out except me?
Then it hit me — I was comparing my own story to someone else’s highlight.
Their moment of joy. Their public win.
But nobody posts the struggles, the confusion, or the days they wanted to quit.
And that’s the truth — life is not a competition.
Some of us start small. Some start strong.
Some people marry early. Others take time.
Some find purpose fast. Others go through 5 different paths before discovering theirs.
But we all have our own time.
Your time isn’t delayed.
It’s just different.
We live in a generation where everyone seems to be achieving something —
A new business, a perfect relationship, moving abroad, trending online…
And sometimes, you wonder, “God, when will it be my turn?”
But let me remind you:
Slow success is still success.
Quiet growth is still growth.
Nobody claps for the seed buried underground — but one day, it blossoms.
So please, if you’re reading this and you’ve been feeling tired, left out, or like you’re not doing enough…
You’re not failing. You’re still becoming.
Don’t let someone else’s journey make you question your own.
Don’t let the noise of the world drown out your small wins.
You’re not late. You’re not slow. You’re human.
Rest when you need to.
Pause if you must.
But don’t give up. You’re not behind.
You’re exactly where you need to be.
And maybe, just maybe —
This season is preparing you for something far greater than you ever imagined.